Título: The State of Affairs
Autor: Esther Perel
Sinopse: "A fresh look at infidelity, broadening the focus from the havoc it wreaks within a committed relationship to consider also why people do it, what it means to them, and why breaking up is the expected response to duplicity — but not necessarily the wisest one.” — LA Review of BooksFrom iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity comes a provocative and controversial look at infidelity with practical, honest, and empathetic advice for how to move beyond it.An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. What are we to make of this time-honored taboo—universally forbidden yet universally practiced? Why do people cheat—even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Perel weaves real-life case stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis in this fast-paced and compelling book.For the past ten years, Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage—with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart.Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about modern relationships—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations.Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.”
Contexto da obra
Quando a classificação é mais ampla, o contexto do livro costuma depender ainda mais de autoria, tema e edição. “The State of Affairs”, de Esther Perel, publicado pela editora HarperCollins, em 2017 e com 336 páginas, integra a categoria Livros Variados. Por isso, autoria, edição e tema acabam tendo ainda mais peso na forma de apresentar o livro.
Editora: HarperCollins
Páginas: 336
Ano: 2017
Edição: Reprint
Linguagem: pt_BR
ISBN: 9780062322609
ISBN13: 9780062322609
Sobre a editora
Os livros da editora HarperCollins apresentam uma variedade de narrativas que transitam entre mundos fantásticos, realidades distópicas e dramas humanos intensos. O leitor pode esperar histórias onde o mistério e a aventura se cruzam, como em tramas que envolvem criaturas mágicas e lutas contra forças opressoras. Há também obras que exploram o horror em situações cotidianas, revelando tensões inesperadas em ambientes familiares. Além disso, o catálogo inclui narrativas históricas e biográficas, que abordam temas como revoluções e desafios pessoais, e textos que discutem saúde, espiritualidade e ciência de forma acessível. O tom das obras varia do suspense e ação até o lirismo e a reflexão, com ritmos que vão do acelerado ao contemplativo, oferecendo experiências de leitura para diferentes gostos e idades.
